Sweet Tea Talks Vol.8

Let's get over our should's.

Lately, I’ve been battling a heavy case of the should’s. It’s an affliction that leaves me irritated, anxious, confused, decision-paralyzed and always devoid of joy.

I should write. I should go for a walk. I should clean the bathroom. I should grocery shop. I should work on the pajama pants I’ve had fabric for for a year. I should get up and go pee.

Something about that silly little ‘s’ word. Should. Just sucks the fun right out of everything.

This week I want to talk about how I’ve been working to reframe my should mindset into a get-to attitude. Refocus my desires and drive and remember that the only person I actually have to answer to at the end of the day is myself.

Yikes and also yay.